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Love and Marriage
by Spaventa Impego
http://www.abcmarriage.com
Let us reiterate the fact that 'Man is a social animal'. So,
to keep the society going there are several social
institutions like marriage. Yes, marriage is essentially a
social institute. For as long as we think of human existence
marriage has been there. Perhaps it started with Adam and
Eve. However, above all this, marriage is a life long
commitment of love, respect and belongingness. It is the
ultimate sacrifice of love, an entire life of commitment,
and the true sign that you have and give unconditionally all
of yourselves to that one person.
Marriage is not just part of the Karmic cycle giving a
license to reproduce. It is a very important aspect of one's
life. It is like a big gamble. You are sort of taking
chances of committing a lifetime to someone who might turn
it into a joyous smooth journey or just simply make it a
burden to carry. It is important to get married, as the
research shows that people who don't' get married at the
right age or who don't marry at all, suffer from a kind of
emptiness that leads to frustrations. With marriage comes
family and with family responsibilities. These
responsibilities effortlessly become the goal of life,
giving direction to our work. Thus, it's a complete cycle, a
sequential flow of facts of life.
Marriage is like every other relationship and aspects of
life. It has it's ups and downs. But it is up to us as to
how we keep this relationship going not just smoothly but
also healthily blooming into a bond. The very foundation of
any marriage is love. Now, love is out of mutual respect and
trust. So, trust your spouse and most importantly respect
him or her as an individual.
Many times spouses get too possessive. Remember it might
just choke both of you and your relationship. Every
relationship has to have its own intimacy but at the same
time allowance for a personal space is a must. Also,
remember there would be times when both of you fight and
find it just so impossible to stand each other. Even in
these situations keep out the third party involvement. It
is both of you who have to solve and keep the bond afresh.
Arguments and fight are also important for a relationship to
flourish since it rinses out hard feelings but never let it
go out of hand. Do not get to the limit of bring in your
egos.
Sex and physical intimacy is almost synonymous with
marriage. So don't let the flame die out. At times you can
move away from being "Man and wife". Try to be those
proverbial lovers. A touch here, a kiss there, and a few
gentle caresses - all make up for momentary connections that
draw you together. Sex should not be an activity, a mundane
work part of daily routine, or once a day, once a week
regime. Lot of foreplay and lot of sensitivity with lot of
attention to what you both want and like and surely the fire
is going to blow off the lids.
You must spend as much time together as possible. Do a lot
of thought sharing. Be proactive to each other's needs and
desires. Do not argue on money. Do not ever fight in front
of kids. Never hide anything from each other or develop a
communication gap. Mix up all these small little recipes of
great moments of togetherness and strong relation and you
get a melange of a timeless bond and a relationship envied
by many.
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